- Protecting children is everybody’s business
- Adults have a responsibility to report abuse
- Consider offering some support if you are worried
- If in doubt share your concerns about children
- Reporting concerns rarely leads to a child being removed
- Act now - long-term abuse is damaging for children
All parents have problems at times but can be helped by other
family members or close friends. If someone you know is
having difficulties, you could:
- Listen to their problems.
- Help them cope
- Encourage them to get more help
- Support them by babysitting or doing shopping
There may be times when a child is at risk of harm and you need
to get help. When we think, see or are told about a child
that is being hurt we can react in many different ways. We may feel
guilt, angry or shocked. Some people’s reactions can stop help
getting to a family who need it.
Many people do not tell because they fear that:
- Children will get hurt more
- They believe that nothing will be done
- They believe that the child would be taken away
- They worry that the family may find out who reported them
- Telling may ruin family relationships
In truth, it is better that action is taken early to stop things
getting worse. Long-term abuse is much more likely to cause
problems for a child as they get older. Even if you think an
incident is just a one off, other agencies may already have
concerns about the child. Your information could be very
important.
If you report your concern to
childrens services, you will be asked for
your details and details of the worries you have. You should write
down what you want to say before you speak to them so that you can
remember everything. Reporting child abuse hardly ever results in
the child being taken away from home. This is not the main aim of
Child Protection Investigations and rarely happens. Social workers
can only remove children from home with a court order, having shown
there is a serious risk. In emergency situations, the Police have
the power to remove a child from home for 72 hours.
Warning signs
There are many possible signs of abuse, ranging from injury to
changes in the way a child is acting. You could see something
happen or a child may tell you that he or she is being hurt.
Action
If you think that a child has been hurt, contact the Duty Social
Worker or the Police. If you are unsure, you can speak to a
helpline, such as the NSPCC and your call will be kept private.
What to say
Explain exactly what you have seen or been told. If you
can, keep a note of dates, injuries and the exact words used. These
will help you.
Prevention
Make sure your child knows who they can share worries with if
and when they need to. Listen carefully to children and notice any
changes in them.
Useful contacts
- Referral & Assessment 01733 864180 (out of hours 01733
234724)
- Peterborough Police 0845 456 4564
- NSPCC 0808 800 5000
- Parentline Plus 0808 800 2222